点评:All I wanted was to go for a nice dive. Instead I got sexually assaulted.
I used to love prodive but I recently went on a dive and had a horrifying experience. The guide I had was too touchy. It started off as just casual touching on the arm and then the small of my back… non-consensually. This continued throughout the entire day and progressively became more frequent. At one point he ‘accidentally’ touched my butt. After the dive, during what I thought was going to be a debrief, he told an anecdote and used me as prop which involved grabbing my head with both hands, pulling me in towards his face and pretending to kiss me, again non-consensually. When I left he then proceeded to hug me which I really didn’t want to do but I am a shy person and really am not the best at confrontations. Oh might I add he is probably 30+ years older than me.
Honestly, I should not have been put in this position in the first place as this is not appropriate behaviour in any circumstance. I can imagine many other people would also react the same way and feel way too awkward to say anything in the moment. I hope prodive cares enough and gets rid of this man because I really pray this doesn’t happen to anyone else. I won’t be diving with prodive again and I will not be recommending this shop until that disgusting man is gone.
翻译:我只想好好潜水。结果却遭到了性侵犯。
我以前很喜欢 prodive,但最近去潜水时却经历了一次可怕的经历。我的导游太敏感了。一开始只是随意地摸了一下我的胳膊,然后是后腰……未经同意。这种情况持续了一整天,而且越来越频繁。有一次他“不小心”摸了我的屁股。潜水结束后,在我以为是汇报的时候,他讲了一件趣事,把我当作道具,用双手抓住我的头,把我拉到他的脸上,假装亲吻我,同样是未经同意的。当我离开时,他开始拥抱我,我真的不想这样做,但我是个害羞的人,真的不擅长对抗。哦,我得补充一下,他可能比我大 30 多岁。
老实说,我本来就不应该被置于这种境地,因为在任何情况下这种行为都是不合适的。我可以想象许多其他人也会有同样的反应,而且当时会觉得太尴尬了,什么都说不出来。我希望 prodive 能够关心并摆脱这个人,因为我真的祈祷这种事情不会发生在其他人身上。我不会再和 prodive 一起潜水,也不会推荐这家商店,直到那个令人厌恶的人离开。