点评:This is why we no longer visit. We have regularly visited your place and have always enjoyed it. However on the last three or four times that we have visited my son has noticed he is always followed by a member of staff. I actually noticed this when we visited a few weeks ago a female member of staff followed him and his girlfriend around . I even spoke to my son so the woman could see they weren’t just two teenagers in their own. Today we visited and when we came out my son said I am never going in there again, either the bloke in their thinks I am going to steal something or he likes following boys. I asked what he meant and he said he noticed the male member of staff was following him and on a couple of occasions when my son turned round he was stood there literally watching him. I told my son i would go back in and say something as I wasn’t happy with that. But he told me not too as he didn’t want it to end in an argument and the risk of us been banned. My son is 18 years old has autism and adhd, and yes sometimes he wears a hoodie with the hood up so probably does look a bit dodgy. But the last two times he has worn jeans and a t shirt and looked quite respectable. I feel quite upset that this has happened and he has now been put of visiting anymore and he does spend quite a bit of money when he visits. Maybe don’t judge everyone by appearance. Sadly due to this I feel we will no longer be visiting. Please remember not all disabilities are visible and this has now knocked his confidence
翻译:这就是我们不再去的原因。我们以前经常去你家,而且一直很享受。然而,最近三四次,我儿子注意到他总是被一名工作人员跟踪。几周前我们去的时候,我就注意到了这一点,一名女工作人员一直跟着他和他的女朋友。我甚至跟儿子说了话,让那名女工作人员知道他们不是两个十几岁的孩子。今天我们去了,出来的时候,儿子说我再也不去了,要么是他们家那家伙觉得我要偷东西,要么就是他喜欢跟着男孩子。我问他是什么意思,他说他注意到那名男工作人员一直在跟着他,有几次我儿子转过身,他都站在那里看着他。我告诉儿子,我会回去跟他说点什么,因为我对此很不高兴。但他告诉我不要这么做,因为他不想以争吵告终,以免我们被禁止进入。我儿子18岁了,患有自闭症和注意力缺陷多动障碍。没错,他有时会穿连帽衫,帽子还拉上来,所以看起来可能有点不对劲。但最近两次他都穿了牛仔裤和T恤,看起来还挺体面的。这件事让我很难过,现在他不能再来探望了,而且他每次来都花不少钱。或许不应该以貌取人。很遗憾,正因为如此,我觉得我们以后不会再来探望他了。请记住,并非所有残疾都是肉眼可见的,这件事现在打击了他的自信心。