点评:At the end of the last session, our ski instructor Nanu, announced in public in front of all of the parents of the other children (10 in class) and all of the other group members that one of my daughters was the only child in the group who had not achieved 3 star level.
She was looking at one of the fathers of the other children whilst delivering this information, she didn’t even bother to find out who Laura’s mother was.
At no point did she ask who her mother was or attempt to deliver that information in private. One does not criticise young children in public, that is a private matter. My daughter was traumatised after her.
At no point during the week, did she advise me of any difficulties or make any suggestions as to what techniques could be used to help her improve.
She did not give any feedback as to why she did not pass, but simply said ‘you know why’ to my daughter.
She does not have the communication skills to be allowed to deal with young children. I have read my daughter’s diary since returning home and every day last week, there is an entry about how Nanu must really hate her.
I deal with children on a daily basis and I don’t think I have ever come across such callous treatment of a young child.
Her ski instruction was poor, she improved more in an hour of a private lesson than she had all week.
The goal in teaching children should be positive reinforcement and using fun tactics to allow them to address areas in which they need to improve. I raised my concerns with her and she did not apologise or seem to see any harm in what she had done.
10 in a class is too many, they were standing around waiting all week.
翻译:上一节课结束时,我们的滑雪教练娜努当着其他孩子(班上共有10个孩子)家长和所有学员的面,公开宣布我的女儿是班上唯一一个没有达到三星级水平的孩子。
她宣布这个消息时,目光却落在其他孩子的父亲身上,甚至懒得去打听劳拉的母亲是谁。
她始终没有询问劳拉的母亲是谁,也没有尝试私下告知。公开批评年幼的孩子是不对的,这是私事。我的女儿因此受到了很大的心理创伤。
这一周里,她从未向我解释过劳拉遇到的困难,也没有提出任何提高滑雪水平的建议。
她没有解释劳拉为什么没通过,只是简单地对她说“你知道为什么”。
她根本不具备与年幼的孩子沟通的能力。自从回家后,我一直在看女儿的日记,发现上周每天都有一篇,都在抱怨奶奶一定很讨厌她。
我每天都和孩子们打交道,但我从未见过如此冷酷无情对待幼童的情况。
她的滑雪指导很糟糕,她上了一小时的私教课,进步比她一周的进步都大。
教孩子滑雪的目标应该是积极鼓励,并运用寓教于乐的方式,让他们能够发现并改进需要提升的地方。我向她表达了我的担忧,但她没有道歉,似乎也没有意识到自己的行为有任何不妥。
一个班有十个孩子太多了,他们整整一周都只能站在那里等着。